If you've never heard of Insecure Writer's Support Group, you're in for a treat! Head on over to the
IWSG website, created by the awesome
Alex Cavanaugh, and
sign up to be part of this amazing network of writers. Then on the first Wednesday of every month, post your insecurities on your blog. It seems counter-intuitive, I know. But instead of being tarred and feathered for being insecure, you'll find you're uplifted and encouraged by others who are in the same boat as you, or who have been there before and can show you the treasure map so you can make your way through to the other side.
This month's post is my submission for the IWSG Guide to Publishing and Beyond, for the category "Writing".
You know, I've been working on this insecurity for a while now, this idea
that there are no set "rules" for how to be a writer. You
just...write. But that doesn't mean you write every day, always, although maybe
you do...It means just what it says: You just write. It doesn't mean that you
have books published, or an agent, or that you're in the process of querying
everyone in the publishing industry. You just write.
So much of our insecure writers’ lives are spent seeking
validation from other people, people we deem to know more about the business of
writing than we do. We give them the power to tell us whether our ideas are any
good, whether our plots are properly executed, whether we’re allowed to take up
space at the next writer’s conference if we don’t know what a query is…when
really, what we want them to do is tell us that we belong to this magical group:
Writers! And, sadly, there will always be someone who wants to keep other
people out, because they’re just as insecure as we are that there won’t be room
for them in that group if they let us in.
The truth is, though, that we are the ones with the power to tell
our stories. We decide what is good. And by the very act of writing we declare
to the world that we belong.
Do you have an outline? Just write. Do you
have a first draft? Just write. Do you have five published novels and a
contract on a new series? Just write. Do you have the tiniest baby of an idea
percolating in your mind? Just write! Write it down. Then guess what? You're a
writer!
Elisabeth Kauffman is a freelance editor of fiction and you can find her on the web at www.writingrefinery.com.
(I give the IWSG Anthology permission to reprint this blog post for their publication "The Insecure Writer's Support Group Guide to Publishing and Beyond)
